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How to Ask Customers for Reviews and Referrals
Seven word-for-word swaps for asking clients for reviews and referrals, with what to say instead and why it works. Free cheat sheet plus a printable PDF.
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The best moments to ask for a review or referral are short. A client thanks you at the end of a job, replies to an invoice with a kind word, or tells you the problem is finally fixed. If you don't ask then, the moment usually passes.
What you say in that moment matters more than how often you ask. A general request gets a friendly nod and is forgotten. A specific, easy request gets acted on. The seven swaps below show the exact words to use.
1. Instead of “Leave us a review sometime”
Say: “Would you write two sentences about how it turned out?”
Why it works: Small, specific asks get done.
2. Instead of “Remember to review us later”
Say: “While it's fresh, could you post a review tonight?”
Why it works: Ask at the happiest moment.
3. Instead of “Just write whatever you want”
Say: “Mention the problem we solved and how fast it happened.”
Why it works: A prompt beats a blank page.
4. Instead of “You can find us on Google”
Say: “I'll text you the link now, it takes one minute.”
Why it works: Fewer steps means more reviews.
5. Instead of “Tell your friends about us”
Say: “Who's one person you know facing the same problem?”
Why it works: One name beats 'everyone' every time.
6. Instead of “Only if you have time”
Say: “Your review helps the next client choose with confidence.”
Why it works: People help when they see impact.
7. Instead of “Feel free to refer us”
Say: “Send a friend my way and your next visit's 10% off.”
Why it works: A thank-you makes sharing feel good.
The whole cheat sheet
| Don't say | Say instead |
|---|---|
| Leave us a review sometime. | Would you write two sentences about how it turned out? |
| Remember to review us later. | While it's fresh, could you post a review tonight? |
| Just write whatever you want. | Mention the problem we solved and how fast it happened. |
| You can find us on Google. | I'll text you the link now, it takes one minute. |
| Tell your friends about us. | Who's one person you know facing the same problem? |
| Only if you have time. | Your review helps the next client choose with confidence. |
| Feel free to refer us. | Send a friend my way and your next visit's 10% off. |
Questions people also ask
How do you ask a customer for a review without being pushy?
Ask right after they've told you they're happy, and keep the request small and specific, such as asking for two sentences about how it turned out. Tell them how the review helps future clients, then send the link so they don't have to look for it.
What should I tell customers to write in a review?
Don't write it for them. Give them a prompt instead, like mentioning the problem you solved and how quickly it was done. A prompt helps people get started, and the review is still in their own words.
Can I offer a discount in exchange for a review?
Google's review policies prohibit offering incentives for reviews, so ask for reviews without a reward. A thank-you discount is better used for referrals, when a client sends a friend your way.
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